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Tuesday, August 14, 2007

Best Friend Forever.

Isn't it funny how we try to stop using the word best friend as much as possible when we get older? Even though how special that particular person is to you as a friend you will refuse to call that person as your "best friend" but you rather call them as you "good friend" only. Sometimes, you even scoff at the word best friend and say "what kind of term is that?".

It's funny how we refuse to revisit our childhood time when friends mattered the world to you and the word "Best Friend forever" lived vividly in your mind. Somehow, we never doubted the particular word during our childhood time. You were so sure that you will and always be friends, and a matter of fact best friends till the end of time. That's the power of innocence and naivety. It makes you believe in something so strongly no matter how many times people tell you that it's impossible to do so and how other various factors around the world can change you and your mindset. But no, we still want to believe it so.

I miss those time when you don't see the world as a force that is going against you and everything seemed bright and merry. Innocence of a kid I'd say and how much I want it back. When you've learned the reality of the world, you can't live in your bubble anymore.

I'm digressing here...But the point is only in a certain moment of your life friends mean everything to you but as you grow older the word friend or best friend starts to fade away slowly until you don't believe in friendship anymore. It's funny how humans work that way. It's intriguing how we try to deny of having "best friends" in fear of being called naive in your adulthood. Whatever...I still want to believe in BFF cause good friend is only a substitute for best friend. It doesn't matter in any way.

by Zephyr at 5:12 AM |